Women... a confused group of species....

Come to think about, woman don't really know what they want, it's either you are too soft or you are too ghetto.........When you care a lot they will break your heart, when you care the least they tend to love you a lot. So does this mean a power in a relationship is held by the one who cares the least? I don't think any human can truly predict or write a book that about woman behavior... Sometimes i think they are addicted to emotional pain, maybe its the only way they know that they have feelings...Pain might their comfort... but then again i might be wrong.....